What's stopping you from getting them back?
Dealing with the pain in the beginning is tough and people either don't understand or they choose to look away because the emotion is so powerful it affects other people to and they will shun away the best they can without trying to be rude.
The first reaction is to strike out and cause some type of harm. Don't do it, it will only complicate things more for you. As much as possible you want to keep a low profile, which shouldn't be to hard since everyone knows you're distraught anyway. You will have family that legitimately do care and will try to help. The problem is that, when a person is in this type of shock, words and advice just don't have the same effect as when you are thinking logically.
Let's face it, we ALL need help when we are in this situation and we need objective help from a source that knows what they are talking about.
Let me introduce you to the system that has helped over fifty thousand people get there ex's back, solved simple misunderstandings and saved marriages. The magic of making up, the words themselves already bring some healing to the heart, because there is hope in those words. In this system there is hope as well, not only to bring them back but to create an incredible relationship that will never get that far again.